The recession knocked me down with 20 percent pay cuts for both my ex and me for in 2008, 2009 and 13 percent in 2010 and 2011. With two in college, cars and mortgage, you try keeping your bills paid up and the light and heat and water on. Now I'm divorced with a credit score under 400 but have paid every penny of every debt, have thee college grads including my ex, own my car and motorcycle and I buy only in cash. And I'm a pretty damn responsible person. I always play a pretty decent bass, do not drink to excess and practice regularly whether there's a gig or not