I am 100% okay with effects processing, and less okay with utility processing such as EQ and compression; especially if utility processing is extreme or gets in the way of me doing a good job. Ultimately, I don't have a problem unless what you send me really sounds awful. I won't do anything to intentionally make you sound bad, but sometimes the best thing you can do as an audio tech is take the fader on the bass channel and push it all the way down (primum non nocere applies).
If a tech asks your opinion, tell them the truth. Just do it with a professional demeanor that shows the appropriate amount of respect. In this context try to remember that taste is subjective; and you can say you don't like something without inferring that it sucks or that the person is incompetent.
How emphatic you can be depends on your group hierarchy and whether the audio tech is working for the group or someone else. If everyone in the group has a fairly consistent vision of how the group should sound, it may be possible to leverage the combined power of the group to get the desired change. If everyone in the group has a different idea of what the band should sound like, it's probably best to let it go. What I am trying to say is the situation determines what you can and should do.
Fair enough. I'm never rude, and I usually put in terms of frequencies to add or remove rather than qualitative terms. Usually its more 80hz and less 800hz...
I never send anything awful...I'ma fan of bland and boring tone (to most).
When I was actively mixing I tried not to take much liberty with tones, unless it was unworkable or lacking. It wasn't my art.


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