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Did your parents play an instrument too?

My mom,all 6 of her sisters and all of their kids (my cousins) are musicians. Family reunion is like a big jamfest. Most of them are great singers also. Very fun. I have a cousin that is the most solid bass player I have ever seen. He says he wishes he had my licks but he is the fortunate player. I dont think I have ever seen him hit a wrong note and his timing is impecable. That is much more impressive than licks and chops. I have seen very few players that solid. Can also sing those extremely high girl harmonies that make your spine tingle. Always a joy to watch him.
 
According to my parents, there's never been anyone else before this generation that had any interest in music. I do have a 20-year-old cousin that's an extremely good singer (self-taught on CDs and radio) and a 5-year-old cousin that learning drums and can already hold a good beat.
 
my parents were not instrumentalists but were both very involved in musical theater, writing lyrics in both parents' case and directing in my father's case. My father had a great jazz collection and as a small child (I was the youngest of four) I grew up absorbing it. My three older sisters were all very musical and we grew up being expected to sing on key, sing harmony and at least play piano and guitar. Church music was defisnitely a factor too. I have no doubt these influences led to me being a pretty versatile musician today despite having relatively little formal training. As to being a bass player, I think my dad's jazz collection had a bigger influence than anything else. Ray Brown! His lines were my musical foundation as a kid.
 
Neither of my parents played an instrument but my mom sang around the house a lot (good singer). She made sure I learned to play the piano and organ when I was as kid. I had a cousin who was a professional accordion player/studio musician in LA(he's dead now), and supposedly have a cousin who is a songwriter in Nashville(but don't know her name). My son plays drums, guitar, keys and bass.
 
My Dad plays tenor banjo, mandolin and guitar. He said he dabbled in standup bass back in the day, but I've never heard him play. He played banjo in the Mummers Parade in Philly for about 35 years, and also in a trio that does Irish music. Both of my brothers have an ear for music, but I'm the only one who actually plays. I have cousins that play too.
 
My Mom learned a few chords on a guitar that my Dad bought her. My great grandfather made a violin and could play a bit I understand. I don't have much that much talent so there might be something in (or not in) our genes.

My cousin's son was a drummer in a band that got a little bit of local traction. Maybe it skips generations or he got it from his mom.