I see these kinds of comments all the time on here:
"Nobody cares about your gear."
"Nobody cares that the bass doesn't sound good because nobody hears it anyway."
"The audience is a bunch of drunken idiots who don't know what good sound is."
I hate that kind of attitude. It's a copout of the highest order, and it's 100% untrue. Why even do it if that's how you feel? People who say stuff like that need to get the hell out of playing music.
And what's worse is they try to poison the minds of people who do care and make them feel stupid for caring. Screw that...I have nothing but respect and love for the people who took time out of their busy day to come see me play, and I will always give them my best sound and my best playing.
Imagine if restaurants operated like that: "So our food's lousy...they'll eat it."
Or hospitals: "It doesn't matter what kind of medicine you put in their IV."
Or banks: "So you put in $500 and we gave you a receipt for $50. You're too stupid to know the difference anyway."
For God's sake, if you're going to do a job, do it well. There was a short period in my life where I let people beat me down into thinking nobody cared, and I was miserable onstage, and the band I was in absolutely sucked and was treated accordingly. Then I got with people who really cared, and the band was a lot better and much more well-received, and it really made me step up my game because I enjoyed how much they cared and respected their audience.
Hate to break it to you "nobody cares" types, but your lack of caring plus your negativity about your audience is what's holding you and your band back. If they don't care, it's because you didn't make them care. Sure, nobody will walk out on you if you don't have the finest gear in the world, but that is so not what I'm talking about.
You don't have to have the finest gear in the world to sound good or present yourself well. But you do have to care about being an engaging presence onstage, you do have to care about your FOH sounding right, and you do have to actually like and respect the people who come to your gigs. And if audiences don't care, how come I see so many bands who phone it in get booed off the stage?
You don't have to be dead-on 100% perfect with everything, but you do need to care. If you don't, how can you expect others to care?