When I do such a spur of the moment thing I sometimes mess up after it, not because I did something difficult, but because I actually pulled it off. I get so surprised that I kind of forget to keep playing. 
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I don't know ANY musician, including college-educated players and pros, who are immune to hitting a bad note every once in a while.

The song I most consistently mess up is one that seems easy at first but actually has some interesting changes- Billy Idol White Wedding- in the part before the end where it just hangs on the B forever, while he does the "Nothing Pure in this world"- well where it changes back to the other chords just fries my brain, not sure I have ever switched to that E-chord at the right time in the dozens of times I have played the song with bands.
Don't feel bad. We've all messed up. Everyone in our band has messed up good at one point or another. Even the greats have messed up. Here's what you do:
1. If you mess up infrequently and at random, then shrug it off. They're called clams, and since we're only human, everyone is guilty of them.
2. If you mess up at specific points in a song, then you need to rehearse it more. Some songs are tougher than others, and need more work.
3. If you mess up a lot all the time, then you are probably in over your head. Time to do some serious woodshedding before continuing on.
Hope this helps.
Too funny - but not a bad idea.
I think the bandmates who shoot nasty looks or think they have to make your blunder the topic of conversation for the rest of night(or beyond) are tools.
In a larger sense, NOT telegraphing that you made a mistake is the best way to cover it. Most people are not paying that close attention to all aspects of the song. if you wince and look silly after you make a mistake, however, they will see it and then they'll know.
My old guitarist used to get on our Youtubes after a show and agonize over his every mistake or wildly slam the performance. I got rid of him partly for that reason (and the fact that most of those mistakes were due to his inability to control his alcohol).
TL;DR: Don't Show It When You Blow It
Sure you do. They are the same guys that never got fired from a band, never sold a bass for less than they bought it for, always play everything note-for-note, never played for less than $100 a gig, their wife knows Bono's wife, and are always ready to share their 'advice.'
I think we all know guys like that.![]()
NO ONE IS ABOVE COUNTING.
Actually, there are MANY wrong notes you can hit. For example, if you're doing a rehearsed line and you hit a note not in that rehearsed line, it's a wrong note and no zen philosophy changes that.
And despite being a working pro for 35 years, I hit wrong notes all the time, and so do all folks in every band I've ever been in. We try to not do it, but sometimes it just happens. Anyone who claims not to make mistakes is delusional. Some make way fewer than others, that's about it.