Wait, I just read your OP again. SHE CALLED HER FRIENDS OVER AND TOLD THEM YOUR EXPLANATION. DUDE, ONE OF THOSE CHICKS WAS INTO YOU UNTIL THAT POINT!
This is a big penalty. More then 15 yards and an automatic first down.
Ugh.
+20. Come ON, man.

And, only the musicians in the audience would notice they couldn't hear the bass. Sadly.
