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Do you smile when you play? [Poll]

Do you smile when you play?

  • Yep! I grin like I don’t have a care in the world.

  • Nope! I’m intense and focused.

  • Never thought about it. I probably look like a grump.

  • I’m conscious of it. I try and look pleasant.

  • How can I smile with this carrot in my mouth?


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tb-player

Why so serious?
Mar 6, 2019
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I never used to think about it. But in the last few years, I’ve been playing Sunday mornings at a church that has developed a significant media department, which means my face is on camera every dang week. So when I watch the playback, I see what a grumpy bass player I can look like. As a result, I have started including smiling in my practice routine.

To be clear, I don’t stand up there grinning like an idiot. Sometimes, the only answer is bass-face. However, I’ve learned to be mindful of the fact that I’m doing something I really love and my overall demeanor should reflect that.

Sounds silly, but it’s a real thing.

Anyone else ever pay attention to this?
(As always, photos encouraged!)

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It depends... when I am on stage with a “serious” band, I tend to play it straight.

If I’m playing a punk or metal show, where we can be on the floor instead of the stage, then I’m going to be interacting with the crowd in a more personal, familiar way. It’s impossible not to smile and laugh when someone is rocking out to your band right in front of your face.
 
It's not silly at all - it's show business. :) Smiling on stage doesn't come naturally to me in most circumstances. This wouldn't bother me if it wasn't for the fact that my default expression on stage can look a bit severe. I've had audience members come up to the front of the stage and indicate that I should be smiling. I've also had band leaders emphasize the need for me to smile. So I try to smile more on stage. I also try less to stifle my laughter when I see something ridiculous going on. :D
 
I try to remember to smile as much as possible. It was easier when I was doing most of the lead vocals because I tend to smile when I sing, anyway.

Generally I go into the zone and sometimes I'm told I look serious, but it's just me concentrating on staying focused and not straying out of the zone. When I think of it, I remember to smile.
 
I probably try to look more serious given most of the music I play but I don't try very hard. I'm comfortable in that environment, more than I am in almost any other context. I'm gonna hoot and holler if my bandmate kicks out the jam, egg people on in the audience going wild, laugh, mope, scream, show some genuine appreciation for the audience. I'm comfortable on stage, I'm not too cool for anything though.

Reminds me of a funny conversation that reminds me of the 'act' versus the people.

I was in a goth/horror accordion group. :p Upright bass, accordion, drums, violin, I sang/growled.

After the show, a completely gothed out young lady came up to buy a CD. She said something like

"man, funny...I am so glad we caught you all, if there hadn't been a long line for the bathroom, I, honestly, saw you all setting up and told my friend, 'let's go grab something to eat' I was here for the headliner (a standard goth rock band -who I liked a lot). But your first song, wow, surprising."
I laughed and said "why was it surprising?"
"Your stuff is dark as ****, I mean, you look like corporate office people but ***. Makes me think of all those serial killer stories where the neighbors were all 'he seemed like such a nice guy.'"

ha fact is, I totally would get up there with that group and be all jovial "Hey, how y'all doing. Awesome. [GROWLs] This song is about a child murder that happened in the town next over to mine as a kid. 1234"