That was not clear when I saw your post, QORC, and again I don't mean to be pointing any fingers. It appears we are saying the same thing.
I agree that the OP's apparent desire to have his personal definition of "musician" be something that his peers accept, is misguided and ego-centric. He is attempting, in vain, to elevate is status at the expense of those he feels are inferior. That is an exercise in ego-stroking and is a HUGE waste of time and energy. All his peers need to do to drive him completely insane is continue to call themselves musicians. They could even start telling their non-musician friends to come up to him and say, "Hey dude, I am a musician!" and this poor guy will go mad right before their eyes.
I agree that the OP's apparent desire to have his personal definition of "musician" be something that his peers accept, is misguided and ego-centric. He is attempting, in vain, to elevate is status at the expense of those he feels are inferior. That is an exercise in ego-stroking and is a HUGE waste of time and energy. All his peers need to do to drive him completely insane is continue to call themselves musicians. They could even start telling their non-musician friends to come up to him and say, "Hey dude, I am a musician!" and this poor guy will go mad right before their eyes.


