There's a girl i dated for a short time, who is still a good friend, she's thinking about giving this guy a 4th chance to date her. is it understandable for me to be a bit pissed?
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Background: theres a girl i dated for a short period, not anymore but we're still really good friends and i still like her. anyway she was dating another person, who she really liked(ok with me. if she's happy, i'm happy). anyway, it ended because the other person was really committed to another person, and she(my friend) said it would be a really long time before she could get over her(note, this was a week ago). now, she is talking about going out with another guy who she's gone out with 3 times before. i dont know whats bothering me more, her saying she would be over the other person anytime soon(considering the circumstances feels like she was lying to me) or that this guy is maybe getting a 4th chance! should this bother me or am i overreacting?
Sorry, I speak don't Drama.
yeah, im sorry. realized it sounds stupid, sorry.
Dude go balls out and tell her you wanna go out with her. WHats the worst that could happen? Her say no? So what. I assume you go to public school. There are a ton of girls other than her. Ask her out, if you get rejected move on.
This. I'm too much of a douche bag to give real good advice, unless it involves effect pedals, and even then it's always the same pedal for everything.
Start stalking her.
She'll either get the hint, or a restraining order.
If it's the latter, that's okay too. I mean, who doesn't like a challenge?
Dude go balls out and tell her you wanna go out with her. WHats the worst that could happen? Her say no? So what. I assume you go to public school. There are a ton of girls other than her. Ask her out, if you get rejected move on.
(ok with me. if she's happy, i'm happy).
she(my friend) said it would be a really long time before she could get over her..
um, no stalking. i'll talk to her tomorrow. and the whole thing isnt bothering me anymore. Tool, RATM, and the Floyd always make me feel better
You are lying to yourself.
By the way, is she bisexual? This comment has me wondering, unless it was a typo...
-Mike
If this chick is this much drama now, imagine what you would endure if you two got together... go find someone else.