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Everyone Wants to Jam with Me, I'm Scared

If you don't know the neck of your bass it will be difficult if someone is yelling cords. Just hope the don't just play too loud and everyone other than you are together. Train wrecks are tough to learn from or jam to. Go do it but, be honest and tell them where you are as a bass player. If they don't already know?
 
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I played my first gig roughly 5 weeks after acquiring my bass. It was mostly originals with a few covers. Playing violin in grade school really helped me figure things out. Don't sweat it too much. You'll be playing with your friends in no time.
 
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So I started really young and honestly think I had a band before I even had my bass? We practiced after school for years. Honestly you should just jump in. I wouldn’t be half the player if I didn’t just go for it. With the internet today everyone starting off has a huge advantage also. The most important thing is you have fun and learn from people who have more experience. No one expects you to kill after three weeks. I would focus more on keeping time.
 
Scales are good to know, but if you want a jump start… I’d only focus on the Major, minor, and dominant 7 scales. Pick one key that starts on the E string, and stick with that one key until you feel like you’ve got them memorized. (That shape can be moved to any fret to change the key.) Then focus on arpeggios (a chord picked one note at a time, such as I, III, V. See comment on the Nashville number system for context)… they are much more useful and “musical” to work with in basslines.

As far as to when… why not start now? Be honest about where you are at as a player. I’m certain they will be understanding. But what you will earn in just trying to jam will go a long way once you become proficient. A lot of players ignore ear training until they need it… this will start your ear training early, and that can be a HUGE asset as a bassist, especially if your services are in-demand.

Another tool you may want to learn early is the Nashville number system. I’ll give you a little to start with…

Major Scale is:
I - II - III - IV - V - VI - VII - (octave)

minor Scale is: (b = flat)
I - II - bIII - IV - V - bVI - bVII - (octave)

Dominant 7 Scale is:
I - II - III - IV - V - VI - bVII - (octave)
 
I've been learning bass for almost 3 weeks now and I've had 3 separate guitarist friends ask me multiple times to jam with them soon, they've all got at least 3 years of consistent playing experience under their belts meanwhile this is the first time I've touched an instrument (used to play violin) in 4 years. Bassists are in short supply in the scene so I know they're all waiting for the moment they can snatch me up into their bands. The idea of trying to play in front of any of them, let alone play a good bassline, is extremely daunting. I just don't feel like I have enough skill developed yet.

What kind of stuff should I be doing to get myself to be jam ready besides learning scales and learning to identify pitches by ear?

Also, at what point in playing bass did you feel comfortable with the idea of playing alongside others?

After violin, you’ll have a great ear for scales and musicality? Don’t stop using it.

I think the two main things i would have told myself three weeks in are:

-Rhythm.
You have to learn to gauge this, and if the other players aren’t offering it: Provide it.

-Listen:
I can’t overstate the importance of this.
“Hear” what you are playing as it sounds within the context of the other instruments you are playing with.

As a new player (you are probably more experienced in music than you credit yourself) I personally had a bad habit of riffing on ideas i wanted to emulate, but darned if i was listening to what everyone else was doing and if my playing “fit”.
This also clicks in with “rhythm”.

if you get the feeling the other players are taking the music or the rhythm away from what you thought was correct, they are most likely the ones in charge and you need to adjust your playing to lock in with them.

(Coming from the perspective of someone of with less experience being asked to jam by more experienced musicians)


Unless you are trying to clash with the tonality or, are noodling over a decent track, rhythm will save you.

Stick to root notes, perfect intervals. Or percussive playing.
It’s ok to stop playing and listen for a few reps if you’re not sure if you’re playing right.

IMO playing notes to try and find where you are tonally and rhythmically is a sin compared to sparsity, rests and breaks.

playing with others, being heard by others improves your playing doubly compared to practice alone.

technical issues aside, the bass is a not a loner. It’s a social instrument which enjoys working with and coordinating groups of instruments and percussive objects
 
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I've been learning bass for almost 3 weeks now and I've had 3 separate guitarist friends ask me multiple times to jam with them soon, they've all got at least 3 years of consistent playing experience under their belts meanwhile this is the first time I've touched an instrument (used to play violin) in 4 years. Bassists are in short supply in the scene so I know they're all waiting for the moment they can snatch me up into their bands. The idea of trying to play in front of any of them, let alone play a good bassline, is extremely daunting. I just don't feel like I have enough skill developed yet.

What kind of stuff should I be doing to get myself to be jam ready besides learning scales and learning to identify pitches by ear?

Also, at what point in playing bass did you feel comfortable with the idea of playing alongside others?
I jumped straight in but I was already a guitar player so it wasn’t so daunting. Arpeggios are as important if not more so than scales to begin with to create musical bass lines. As bass players generally we more or less play counter melodies a lot of the time. Play as much as you can at home with recordings or wherever possible. Youtube is a great resource for jamming. There’s no substitute for time spent playing. You’ll learn while having fun.
More time on the instrument gives you familiarity with the fretboard. Knowing where the notes are by name is essential when working with other musicians. Chord knowledge (arpeggios are just chords played one note at a time) will help you speak their language.
 
Yeah no way was I ready to jam with experienced guitarists at 3 weeks, hell even 3 months.

Learn the notes on the fretboard so when they tell you the riff is D, C, G, etc you know where to go. Just keep it simple and focus on being in time. If they're doing really complex stuff fuggetaboutit.

If they really want you they'll hold your hand while you get up to speed. No matter what you're gonna need to bust your butt for a while. Be comfortable with sucking for now, we've all been there.

Enjoy the ride!
 
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I've been learning bass for almost 3 weeks now and I've had 3 separate guitarist friends ask me multiple times to jam with them soon, they've all got at least 3 years of consistent playing experience under their belts meanwhile this is the first time I've touched an instrument (used to play violin) in 4 years. Bassists are in short supply in the scene so I know they're all waiting for the moment they can snatch me up into their bands. The idea of trying to play in front of any of them, let alone play a good bassline, is extremely daunting. I just don't feel like I have enough skill developed yet.

What kind of stuff should I be doing to get myself to be jam ready besides learning scales and learning to identify pitches by ear?

Also, at what point in playing bass did you feel comfortable with the idea of playing alongside others?

Go for it! Exposure, and experience, are key. Never turn down a jam/gig.

As a high school pup, I learned a song on Monday, and went on stage, Tuesday - in front of the entire school. Everybody wanted to be my buddy, after that.
 

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