Once you agree to something, you're stuck there.
Next time they ask, though, you can try to renegotiate.
As others have said, it also depends on how big the pie is.
If equal share means $200 a man, then I'm all right with equal share.
If equal share is $40 a man for a 3 hour set, then I likely won't even consider taking the gig. But more importantly, I'd negotiate for a set rate instead.
If I'm subbing for a band, then I am not a "band member". I'm a sub, and I don't have to be bound by "band member" practices.
I did a gig a few months back where everyone, including the BL, walked with $80, except I walked with $150. Because that's how much my time was worth to do the gig, and my talents were worth the cost to the band. The BL was happy to have me, has invited me to do more sub gigs with him.
I'm not ever trying to screw anybody, or give another player the shaft, but you gotta have standards.
Most BL's in my area know that they'll have to go out of pocket on a gig every once in a while to keep good players in the band. It's one of the hazards of being the BL.
But it's offset by the gigs where we all get paid well, or the solo gigs the BL can do to restock their bank account.
Moral of the story: ask what you think you're worth. Actually, scratch that. Ask for slightly higher than you think you're worth.
You'd be surprised how often it works out.
Next time they ask, though, you can try to renegotiate.
As others have said, it also depends on how big the pie is.
If equal share means $200 a man, then I'm all right with equal share.
If equal share is $40 a man for a 3 hour set, then I likely won't even consider taking the gig. But more importantly, I'd negotiate for a set rate instead.
If I'm subbing for a band, then I am not a "band member". I'm a sub, and I don't have to be bound by "band member" practices.
I did a gig a few months back where everyone, including the BL, walked with $80, except I walked with $150. Because that's how much my time was worth to do the gig, and my talents were worth the cost to the band. The BL was happy to have me, has invited me to do more sub gigs with him.
I'm not ever trying to screw anybody, or give another player the shaft, but you gotta have standards.
Most BL's in my area know that they'll have to go out of pocket on a gig every once in a while to keep good players in the band. It's one of the hazards of being the BL.
But it's offset by the gigs where we all get paid well, or the solo gigs the BL can do to restock their bank account.
Moral of the story: ask what you think you're worth. Actually, scratch that. Ask for slightly higher than you think you're worth.
You'd be surprised how often it works out.