#1 rule:
NEVER MAKE A FACE WHEN YOU SCREW UP!!!! (and don't swear)

I learned the hard way at the bar in gr.9
NEVER MAKE A FACE WHEN YOU SCREW UP!!!! (and don't swear)
I learned the hard way at the bar in gr.9
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If you truly love playing bass and have practiced your tunes to the point of confidence (which we all hope you have), just remember:
You are the best man for the job. Play to serve the song, to serve the band. Those who really matter will truly appreciate great bass playing. Give it to them and you will have many opportunities in the future.
oh sorry i forgot lol, well the biggest problems was that i wasnt given a set list and no one said how long it was gonna be, so i didnt know all but 10 songs we played in 4 hours of actualy performing, although some of the songs were stuff that we threw together as we were playing. we had one song that we were playing that lasted 22 minutes (it was all video taped and it was 22 mins long by the time on the camera). but the songs i knew i rocked and a few of the in-gig jam sessions were awesome too, but the songs we did that i didnt know sounded aweful and usually the 2nd guitar guy would yell what string i was supposed to be on. everyone was really nice to me though, especialy my band mates they knew i was lost up there at times and tried their best to help me. it was a very mixed day and i really didnt have much fun up there
one positive that came from all of this is i got my friends hot cousins number at the show though so its not a total loss lol
Sounds like you did OK when your played the stuff you knew. Nobody can fault you for the things you didn't. That's good enough. Now that you've popped your Stage cherry, you know what to expect next time. It only gets easier from here.
The only thing I struggle with at times is the fine line between getting lost in the moment, and over thinking the next part of the song. When you can balance the two you fall right into the groove and the world is great. Too much of either and you mess up and feel stupid.![]()
In a popular music context, most people don't even know what a bass is.