I went through the same quest, where I wanted a flat wound strung bass, but not at the cost of the tone. Being a SSRW guy, I still wanted some briteness and texture that is inherent with SSRW strings. Out of the top three, the rotosound flats came in third, as the started off ok, but died after a while, and lost and top end. They were a little rough feeling as well. I still have a set of Steve Harris sig flats on a p bass thst I tune to C. The high tension mellows a bit and works, but the sound is mostly lackluster.
I settled on Chromes for a long time, and I still have two sets on different basses. They have a very brite sound initially, but the smooth feel are what I just love. They are a little high tension wise, but 95-40 gauge feel pretty good. They will last for a while, but eventually they end up with a thud just like the rest. They have an ok mature tone, but they lose that shimmer I like when they were new.
I eventually tried earnie ball cobalt flats, and that was the sound I was looking for. The sound of a nice nickel wound in a flat. After about three months of heavy play, they mellowed a bit, but the texture is still there, which is what I was looking for. They are a touch rougher than the chromes, but I got used to them, and they do get smoother after the break in it seems. Going with the 95 gauge will feel like a 105 gauge SSRW.
Six months in they still sound great on my precision. They are the last stop for me looking for a lively flatwound.
I'd highly suggest you try them.