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Friend dating my ex... need help (for him!!!)

#21
powderfinger, is this the same friend that whipped it out at an audition when the guitarist & singers girlfriends started grinding on each other? If so, leave him be, he'll find out shes crazy on his own.

You describe your friend as a "player", Im sure he's more experienced with crazy chicks like this than you are, in fact, he probably has a masterful way of defusing her anger and getting more tail before cutting her loose and still remaining friends with her. As a general rule, I never give advice on women to player types, they can handle whatever chicks throw their way.
 
#24
powderfinger said:
So I was on her Facebook for a while. About once a week she would change her status to "in a relationship", but with a new guy... and she would post for a week or so how "in love" she was and blah blah. She would then, after they broke up, posts all sorts of private details about the guy and their break up on her FB... to all 1200 of her "friends". She would totally slander and ruin anyone who crossed her. She doesnt value anyones privacy.
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If it's really that bad, just point him to her facebook page and mention that he might want to think about what she'll post on him when it's over.
 
#26
john grey said:
What do you mean "RUIN HIM"? What could she say that could do so much damage?


Wait a minute...... are you talking about "Congressional Issues"?
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No, my friend's name is not Weiner.

And by "ruin him", all I meant was this. I have seen her copy and paste private emails from her exes on her Facebook page where her and her group of rabid, psycho friends could post 100 comments, like a public stoning. I have seen her post very personal things about people that I am sure they told her initially in high confidence. Thats all I meant.

And the reason he didnt know I dated her was because her and I went out TWO TIMES. It really wasnt a big deal to me at the time. And I dunno about you guys, but the older I get, the more seldom I talk to ALL of my old friends, so my experience happened during a period where he and I werent hanging out and talking every day. Plus, I rarely let my guy friends (or female friends) in on too much of my personal business.
 
#27
PSS- and to the person who commented on how I am not over here because I still go to her FB page.... YOU would go to her FB page too if you knew her. Its absolutely 100% trainwreck entertainment to read her posts.
 
#29
If he has half a brain, it won't take him long to figure it out. Anything you say to him is going to make you look are jealous or vindictive and just trying to get him to dump her because of it. He may even take a punch at you.
Best to let him use the "discovery" method to figure her out.
 
#31
Wait.. your friend is a player, she sounds like a crazy *****. What's the problem here? If he's a player I'm sure he's used to girls bad-mouthing him, and I'm sure he deserves it. He's a grown man, I presume and he should learn to take care of himself. If he's a good friend of yours, yeah.. maybe mention "Hey. She's psycho and going to stalk you." but imo "players" don't deserve that even. They play a risky game, they hurt people, and they're bound to get hurt too. It's part of the game.
 

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