I can't sleep tonight. This thread seems to be helping, though...
Dearest Pruneface, while all of your ruminations may be keenly interesting to you, they are missing a not-so-subtle point.
We can't make you older, wiser, or teach you to play DB with a few pithy comments online, before you even have a bass. We can't even help you get a bass because you aren't ready to do so.
Maybe this thread belongs on some other sub-forum, like, "things I am thinking about doing someday, maybe," or "random thoughts that popped into my head, and I thought other people could comment on, so I wouldn't have to do any actual research."
My final, albeit patronizing, thoughts for you are, in this order:
- Quit talking and start listening. Folks here are trying to help you, but its starting to feel as if we are all pissing up a rope. Making dramatic queries, that have already been made, 3,000 times previously, by equally urgent and sincere folks, is wearing thin. You might salvage some dignity by using the search function and poring over the reams and reams of threads. So far, none of your questions are new. Neither is your failure to review the hundreds of thoughtful replies already provided, over the years, to similar inquiries.
- Consider renting an instrument, from the closest cultural center, maybe New Orleans, since you don't even know if you will enjoy the DB, really
- Get a teacher (pro orchestral player, preferably) and take some lessons
- If you want to play DB, really, set some specific goals; like a timetable for getting a bass and a budget
- if you still want to play DB, get your self in physical motion; go and play/see several actual basses with someone who already plays well.
- For now, focus on the basics of playing the instrument for awhile. The fine points of equipment are not going to be your biggest problem for a long time.
- Finally, if you really want to play arco, get the nicest bow you can. There is an old saw about, "better a good bow on a cheap instrument then vice versa."
Do not buy bows by spec or price; go and play them, or have them sent to you to audition/try. You might get a killer bow for $400 or a baseball bat for $2000. Its all about how it plays. The menu is not the meal.
This is not like BG, where buying the sexiest axe makes you cool. There is something sort of sad, IMHO, about DB players with nice equipment who can't really play. IMHO, it is much cooler to have a crappy bass and play the daylights out of it. Your biggest obstacle with be developing muscular memory, not the fine points of your bow or bass.
Just my 2c. Hope that it helps, in some small way, if only for comic value.