This. My wife will buy people gifts that she thinks they will like. I have faked being happy many times. She meant well though.The key is to get him something that he would NOT buy for himself. Since she's obviously looking to band related stuff, how about on of those stomp lights? I think they are cool but would not spend the $$$ on them for myself. Here is a link: StompLight® - Stage Lighting For Musicians (there are cheaper ones out there too.