Is the musician's version of "here's some aftershave - you stink"?
Or an unasked for gym membership. Just don't.
ha ... okay, will suggest a gift certificate.
The gift for the lazy, which combines all of the impersonality of giving cash with, potentially, restriction to a place that may not be where they want to shop for themself.
Found this on ETSY..Purple Heart and Mahogany …really nicely made. $75View attachment 5161039
Dear God, that's hideous. Don't give someone a tchotchke they have to debate how long they are obliged to keep before dropping at the thrift shop.
Gifts of things tend to be cringeworthy for their combination of good intentions and poor aim, as is obvious from the vast range of suggestions here.
I would suggest a gift of experience: how about a trip to see a band the GF knows the BF likes at a venue just far away to make it an overnight together. It shows a genuine interest in what the givee likes and would appreciate with a desire to spend time and share experiences with that person. Just make sure the tickets/hotel are refundable in case the date is no good. And consider any children or animals that would need caretaking.
Or heck, just tell them that you'd like to to something special for their birthday and ask what they'd like! Not everybody likes surprises.
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