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Holy crap, next time grow some balls and just fire the offending player. By beating around the bush and playing games you gave the guy a license to wreck your night. Who the hell wants to be demoted at a gig? You all exercised bad judgement regarding the situation.
It all began about a month ago, he started really messing up, and would get pissy when we tell him. Plus he insist he be turned up in the voc. mix even though he is tone deaf {not being mean either}
He's a really nice guy, unless you say something about performance. So with any team..we get another player with killer chops, and killer harmony voc. WE were planning on keeping the old guitar player and approached him as a band to tell him about getting the new guy in, and basically sending him to the bull pen.
Well, we handled it at the gig because we are gigging every weekend and don't really have practice. If we add a new tune or 2, we'll usually learn our part via CD/youtube or whatever, and work the changes in sound check or the guitar player and I will get together off stage and run through the parts....
Anyway, we had our "meeting" about 3 hours before gig time. And we wasn't planning of kicking him out, just adding a better player to the line-up. He would still have about 30-40% of his solo's, and the issue on the BG voc. he understood, Our singer is very big on harmony's and the old player knew he couldn't hit the high's that the new guy could.
I guess in a way I could see him being upset, but we felt if we told him over the phone before the gig, he might have not showed up and we would have been screwed since the new guy didn't know the set...we might have been able to limp through it, but this was a bar we get LOTS of gigs at and didn't want to ruin that gig.
Yeah Nick, those bipolar manic depressive junkies are the worst kind of musicians eh?
What if they had brought in a 6-string bass prodigy and in the middle of the last set they told you: just play root 8 while he plays all the tasty bass parts?

Well, we handled it at the gig because we are gigging every weekend and don't really have practice.
Well, we handled it at the gig because we are gigging every weekend and don't really have practice.
Why can't guitar players be laid back like us bassist???
And on the other hand there is also something about an instrument that is seen typically in the background that inspires SOME players to act out in passive-aggressive-jealous-teenage-girl manners.;-)

Anyway, we had our "meeting" about 3 hours before gig time. And we wasn't planning of kicking him out, just adding a better player to the line-up.
I guess in a way I could see him being upset, but we felt if we told him over the phone before the gig, he might have not showed up and we would have been screwed since the new guy didn't know the set...we might have been able to limp through it, but this was a bar we get LOTS of gigs at and didn't want to ruin that gig.
I don't get why all you guys are ripping on the OP for adding a second guitarist. Lots of bands have two guitarists. And it's not like he took over all soloing either. Only in the 3rd set did he get all the solos. The old guy still got most in the first and second sets, if I read it right.
Adding another guitarist isn't "replacing" the existing guitarist. The Beatles had two guitarists.
I don't get why all you guys are ripping on the OP for adding a second guitarist. Lots of bands have two guitarists. And it's not like he took over all soloing either. Only in the 3rd set did he get all the solos. The old guy still got most in the first and second sets, if I read it right.
Adding another guitarist isn't "replacing" the existing guitarist. The Beatles had two guitarists.