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One thing that helped me be patient with mistakes and the perception of learning slowly is to remember that every brilliant bass player in the world once knew less than you know right now.I've been playing almost 2 years now. I have no desire to be in a band, this is just a hobby.
I STILL make some of the very same mistakes on songs I learned when I first started playing. What's it take? I want to stop making the same mistakes. Does it really take this long to play songs perfectly? I feel like I am wasting my time practicing this crap every day.
I'll add that I didn't start with tool but they are my motivation. They are the reason I started playing. There are many songs I play by other bands that I rarely mess up
Divide and conquer.
Slow it down a lot.
Record a video of yourself
I've been playing almost 2 years now. I have no desire to be in a band, this is just a hobby.
I STILL make some of the very same mistakes on songs I learned when I first started playing. What's it take? I want to stop making the same mistakes. Does it really take this long to play songs perfectly? I feel like I am wasting my time practicing this crap every day.
I STILL make some of the very same mistakes on songs I learned when I first started playing. What's it take? I want to stop making the same mistakes.
I agree and fortunately, there are levels of middle ground.Respectfully I would submit that although I respect your wishes not to join a band.......as Jack Bruce once said: "music is interplay, and you have to learn how to play with other musicians to come to your full potential"
These words my friend are painfully, incredibly true.
I agree and fortunately, there are levels of middle ground.
I have a bit of social anxiety and playing with other people has been a remarkably painless way of working through it.
I started with a local low-key blues jam.
Went to some open mikes.
Got invited to be 'the house band' at the local low-key blues jam.
Went to some CL auditions - went nowhere but learned a lot of stuff in a short time. Not perfect - close enough for live music.
Working with a group that is -way- out of my musical comfort zone, and it is a struggle, but they have a need I seem to be uniquely qualified to fill. (Or - it could go nowhere...)
Short version - there will be ways to play with other people that do not involve a long-term commitment to join a band.
Doing so will give you the opportunity to learn new, useful stuff.
And it will create an opportunity for you to work through issues, perfectionist or no, because it is live and it is NOW.
Last blues jam, I took a solo during 'Crossroads Blues.' I got lost somewhere above the 14th fret (fretless...) and it was horrible.
But you know what ? The next verse came around right on time and -nobody- remembers that, except me...
