The band I'm in now, the drummer plays to the song. There's times that it gets a little busy for me, but that's where I just lock onto the groove. Good music takes a village working together. Would I like a rock steady beat, sure, but the band is not about what I like. This drummer is a really decent percussionist, and I think he brings some of that creative flair when he is on a kit. We have a conga\percussionist that he mixes with very well and it does give us little edge on the standard rhythm section. We're playing some Steely Dan and pulling it off, so something must be working. I'm getting older with much more of a live and let live attitude.
If the end product works then like the old song say's "either lend a hand or get out of the way".
Now a drummer that can't keep a steady beat, slows down and speeds up, that's a different beast - nope - go back to the shed and practice. Too loud, too flashy, inappropriate fills and rolls, nope. You have to serve the music... If you can't feel it and find the groove, then it's probably not a good fit.
If the end product works then like the old song say's "either lend a hand or get out of the way".
Now a drummer that can't keep a steady beat, slows down and speeds up, that's a different beast - nope - go back to the shed and practice. Too loud, too flashy, inappropriate fills and rolls, nope. You have to serve the music... If you can't feel it and find the groove, then it's probably not a good fit.