It is hard to convey a complete message with a couple of sentences in a forum. However, I understand and see that I was not 100% clear.
In situations like the one you described, I'd rather drive the song than get lost in a sea of noise.
Here is something that stuck in my head 30 years ago, when I was learning from Rufus Reid "The evolving bassist", perhaps will help clarify:
"My concept is that we as bassists should be able to play completely alone and relay the essence of a song by the construction of our bass line. We don't need the keyboard to clarify the kind of chord. We don't need the drummer to clarify your rhythm. You should be able to swing and radiate energy all alone. Obviously, when we add a good piano player and drummer, it should be an added pleasure, but not a crutch. Don't lean on anyone, it is your responsibility to play harmonically and rhythmically simultaneously"
Peace out.