I did theatre in high school so already had stage experience by the time I played an instrument live. I was in several 'bands' as a teen that didn't play anywhere or even develop rosters of songs, but it gave me the bug. My first real show live was with a punk/hard rock band that somehow got a first band opening slot for some touring hard rock band from the west coast, so it was at a pretty large local venue and had a lot of people come. I was so nervous I was sick. It ended up a disaster performance with lots of stops and starts, and then the singer, too drunk, physically fought with the guitarist on stage, and then barfed into his beer jug and passed out on stage. Someone from the venue came and unplugged me from the amp and told us to get off the stage, so we did, but the audience was going crazy. I couldn't tell on stage if they were mad or appreciative of our 'show'. The drummer and guitarist ended up with fisticuffs backstage too.
I remember loading out while the headliners were about to go on, and the bassist of their band came over and was gushing over our 'show', so I guessed it wasn't too bad. I then started hearing from people how it was 'the punkest show' they have ever seen, etc. I heard that for years, so it must have made a mark on our scene. I learned later that the singer had worked it out so that we'd get 400 for the show, but I guess had been paid and kept the money, moving away afterwards.
The big lesson for me though, was that a spectacle will always be more memorable than a great performance.
I remember loading out while the headliners were about to go on, and the bassist of their band came over and was gushing over our 'show', so I guessed it wasn't too bad. I then started hearing from people how it was 'the punkest show' they have ever seen, etc. I heard that for years, so it must have made a mark on our scene. I learned later that the singer had worked it out so that we'd get 400 for the show, but I guess had been paid and kept the money, moving away afterwards.
The big lesson for me though, was that a spectacle will always be more memorable than a great performance.
