You don't have to dance, if that's not comfortable for you. Moving in the way that works for you with the music is sufficient. If you are enjoying the music, it shows. Engage with your band mates, but not in a way that looks stupid.
Here's a video from a recent show I did. It's not great, you don't really need to watch beyond the first song, but it shows how I move. I'm almost never "dancing" but I am always enjoying the music. This show had the worst monitor mix I've experienced in recent years. Nothing but mud from the electronic drums in my monitor, and I could not lock in with him because I couldn't hear his hits. But I smiled and made it as good as I could, anyway.
I disagree with the person who said engage in conversation during a solo. I saw a bass player do that earlier in this same show, and it just looked silly. It looked like they were into themselves and not the show or the audience. A casual comment to band mates is one thing, but you don't need to dance with your band all night. Just engage for a few measures, like I do with the drummer here, and that's enough.
Dress like you meant to make a statement. OK I'm a girl, but guys can do the guy equivalent of this. I guarantee you there was nobody else in this audience that night wearing a vintage cut polka dot dress.
Here's a video from a recent show I did. It's not great, you don't really need to watch beyond the first song, but it shows how I move. I'm almost never "dancing" but I am always enjoying the music. This show had the worst monitor mix I've experienced in recent years. Nothing but mud from the electronic drums in my monitor, and I could not lock in with him because I couldn't hear his hits. But I smiled and made it as good as I could, anyway.
I disagree with the person who said engage in conversation during a solo. I saw a bass player do that earlier in this same show, and it just looked silly. It looked like they were into themselves and not the show or the audience. A casual comment to band mates is one thing, but you don't need to dance with your band all night. Just engage for a few measures, like I do with the drummer here, and that's enough.
Dress like you meant to make a statement. OK I'm a girl, but guys can do the guy equivalent of this. I guarantee you there was nobody else in this audience that night wearing a vintage cut polka dot dress.