I am actually in a band and I am currently learning chords tones and how to keep rhythm
I am considering a career in music
Cool.
Knowing what I know now, this is what I'd recommend if you're serious:
- Get a private instructor who plays professionally. Learn how to read and utilize theory, but also learn how to network and how to utilize another person's network. Also learn what it means to be a professional musician from someone who is doing it. You need to understand the lifestyle and sacrifices that are required.
- If you're in high school then enroll in band. It doesn't matter if you're playing bass or not. Use the opportunity to further your reading skills and your ability to play in a group setting. Learn what it means to show up prepared and on time (i.e. Early).
- Learn as many songs as you can in as many genres as you can. Know the hits. This alone can get you gigs, but knowing how to read will open up exponentially more opportunities.
- Join groups who consist of musicians better than you. I played with a group of 40 year olds when I was 18. I progressed more in those months than I did at any other time.
- Emerse yourself in music. If you aren't happy or willing to put in 8 hours of playing a day then this might not be the path for you.
- Practice soft skills. Learn how to communicate with people. Be humble, kind, and understand your role in any group. Focus on building "your brand" and what others stand to gain from working with you.
- Speaking of branding and networking, put yourself on social media. Make recordings and videos of your playing for others to see and hear. Be reachable by others and make sure they can easily find ways to contact you.
- Take care of yourself. Eat healthy. Work out. Learn to dress yourself with style that is memorable while also being understated. Music is the entertainment business, so how you look matters.
- As a bassist, you need to know how to serve the songs and play with groove and rhythm. Chops and flashy skills are great, but that's not what being a bassist is about. Learn your role and be willing to serve the band leader and the music.
- Learn to sing. Period. It'll get you more gigs than if you're simply a bass player.
- Also learn piano. Work on being a songwriter and not just a bassist. There's more money and opportunity there.
- Be a self starter and be self motivated. Don't wait on others. Be a leader and make the future you want for yourself.
There's more but that's enough for now.