I don't like being told what to wear.

T-shirt and jeans seems par for the course for a metal group...hell you could even wear shorts. I've seen plenty of hard rock bands wear shorts, it's normal. I think you should wear what you want to wear. A metal band just wearing all black is pretty boring really. No need to serve a stereotype. What happened to metal being fun?

 

Original metal bands generally self destruct over the shared delusion that anybody but other metal musicians should like their music and that it's one (or more) of the bandmember's fault if they get the crickets response. If you enjoy playing it heck yah - wear whatever the fork you want and metal on Garth .

 

My vote is one of the village people (your choice). "What's with you guys? Didn't you get the memo?"

 

One of the first hard lessons of band reality..... Sometimes compromises for the sake of the whole are warranted. I played on the road almost ten years with a drunken slob of a man. But lord he was an exceptional musician and performer too. If the man was in your house he would snuff out his smoke on the carpet. That much of a disgusting slob.... Heck these guys may view you as being overly hung up on your buff physique. Who knows? Whole point is, no two people see things the same way. And doubly so in a group where artistic concerns rival personal concerns. If you want to go someplace in this dog eat dog biz, look beyond the minor flaws we all have and start polishing up what is right. Not as easy as it sounds but it is a recipe for succes. Best of luck to you.

 

What's it pay? Good money, then wear what they tell you. "Beer" money, wear what you want. You decide "good" vs. "beer."

 

I'm surprised anyone noticed...??

 

i vote that you go as a bald overweight 50+ mma fan.

or as george strait.

 

Cargo shorts: the second leading cause of band break-ups, second only to meddling girlfriends.

 

I evaluate metal bands by how they sound, but I can also smell a poseur a mile away. So actually being metal is more important than dressing in a uniform. I went to see Nails/Toxic Holocaust/Gatecreeper a while back and wore gray camo pants, orange sneakers and a chartreuse windbreaker because literally all 300 other people there were dressed in black band shirts and cargos.

What type of shows are you playing? Around here, we usually know most of the people in the scene, so attire is not a big deal.

 

Wes Borland is a good source of inspiration.

 

Not a big fan of the guy but there's no denying he's metal enough for any band.
Even in cargo shorts ... and possibly even more worrying, white socks!


Also I think a drummer gets a pass on shorts anyway ... who's gonna see what he or she is wearing?

 

The yellow Randy man T is excellent, just wear loose black or dark grey pants or jeans, do not wear blue jeans like a country boy or a mom/dad. I know you don't like being told what to wear, but it's theater dude! Show biz, a Reason to live. Black shorts are fine for the drummer in Summer. Anybody else have any problems from this point is just an idiot. (just saw, camo shorts are ok too)

 

...still chuckling at the thread about not liking to be told what to wear, but also asking for TB to tell the OP what to wear.

 

Get your singer some Kiss dolls to play with, and some barbie cloths too.

 

Dude, what's chartreuse?

Not my scene but this must be true. There must be other issues.

 

I'd show up to the next gig in a My Little Pony t-shirt. And tell the singer to shut his mouth hole next time he brings it up.

Of course, if he's the agreed upon bandleader, then get in line or leave the band.

 

If you gotta ask, if ya gotta coordinate, if ya gotta discuss, it ain’t metal… or punk… or rock… it’s pop. Sorry. Very sorry.