I had a date...YAY!

[disenchant]

I think I finally met someone nice. He's a co-worker of a longtime friend of mine. I went with my longtime friend to see this guy's band play. He's a bassist...imagine that! We got to talking because we play the same bass (A Warwick RockBass) but for different reasons. He likes it because it's good for the slap and pop and I like it because it kicks a-- at rock and metal. Anyway, we just clicked, we have similar other interests too. He is...ahem...9 years younger than me. So just call me Demi Moore. BUT I've recently dated a 35 year-old who was afraid of commitment; a 38-year-old who calls me and then disappears for 2 weeks, and then calls me again, and then disappears for 2 weeks; and a 31-year-old that could barely figure out how to tie his own shoes. Oh, and the other 35-year old that chewed with his mouth open. This 23-year old hottie has more drive and determination, maturity and FUN than all the others.

We just did karaoke night and I attempted to sing which wasn't a good idea since I have a cold right now. But I'm finally having fun, and I haven't smiled this much in a looooong time

YAY!

 

[soulgeezer]

Did he get lucky?????

 

[Ray Holt]

Awesome Dis

Glad to hear you found a decent guy and had such a good time!

I'm hoping to find a decent girl and have a good time sometime soon too!

 

[disenchant]

Did he get lucky?????

He's just LUCKY to have me! That's all the luck he gets right now.

 

[soulgeezer]

He's just LUCKY to have me! That's all the luck he gets right now.

We're all lucky to have you, dis. Don't let love get in the way of the really important things in life -- Like OT!

 

[labgnat]

great to hear you found someone cool. life is much better with someone to enjoy it with.

 

[soulgeezer]

So, when is the ceremonial deflowering of the virgin? Will you hang a sheet out of the window? When's the wedding date?

C'mon! Inquiring TB minds want to know!

 

[Depth_Charge]

I think I finally met someone nice.

Great news! Thanks for telling me. I had 2 chics flirt with me today with no provocation from me. Always feels good. Might as well share it hey

Anyway, we just clicked,

Great too!

He is...ahem...9 years younger than me.

Cradle snatcher

BUT I've recently dated a 35 year-old who was afraid of commitment

Loser

a 38-year-old who calls me and then disappears for 2 weeks, and then calls me again, and then disappears for 2 weeks

Cheater

; and a 31-year-old that could barely figure out how to tie his own shoes.

Very trainable - husband material

Oh, and the other 35-year old that chewed with his mouth open.

Honest man. Good on him for being himself in front of you and not leading you into a false belief he is more than he is.

This 23-year old hottie has more drive and determination, maturity and FUN than all the others.

Hottie? Well, noone told me that!!! Ignore all above. You rock and know your stuff girl!! You will find my contact details in a PM very soon. (j/k)

and I haven't smiled this much in a looooong time

From a first date? How cool!! You need to get out more I think

 

[Ray Holt]

life is much better with someone to enjoy it with.

Man ain't that the truth... damn I need to find someone to take on a date!

 

[disenchant]

So, when is the ceremonial deflowering of the virgin? Will you hang a sheet out of the window? When's the wedding date?

C'mon! Inquiring TB minds want to know!

Well, since I'm a virgin and he's a virgin we will have the traditional hunter and virgin huntress ritual, where I will lay down my virginity to the land.

 

[Poop-Loops]

metal

You're too good for him. Dump his funky ass.

 

[disenchant]

You're too good for him. Dump his funky ass.

I love his funky style. He is all about the slap and the pop while I like it LOUD and LOW. Bass of course. This was date #2, and there IS the 3 date rule.

Did I mention he has beautiful eyes? *sigh*

 

[soulgeezer]

... and there IS the 3 date rule.

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[labgnat]

don't put out any earlier than 4 good long dates if you want him to respect you afterwards. well there are 2 kinda guys.
you give it up early and they don't respect ya, that's the category i fall under, but there are the guys that get it soon and are so happy they're not gonna leave you alone. either way the longer the way the better chance the relationship has.

but he is a lot younger than you so maybe your just looking for a fun fling. i dont' know

do what ya want

 

[Depth_Charge]

Well, since I'm a virgin and he's a virgin we will have the traditional hunter and virgin huntress ritual, where I will lay down my virginity to the land.

Sorry, you are 9 years his senior, and have NO experience in the finer points of love making across at least one or two partners to know what you do and don't like? Fine, thats your choice. I respect and admire it, I didn't want that

Down under here though people your ages, that wouldn't last long IME. If it did, to me whoever is happy living like that is more interested in towing the lines of life than experiencing it. My opinion only. No offence meant and I wish you the best of luck in the relationships you hope to form in a positive and mutually beneficial way.

My choices have been both pleasurable and painful as well, and I've suffered for them, and expect to have to answer to some along my life journey. I still feel better positioned to help my children grow up than if I had chosen to live my life to someone elses standards and expectations (which I did for many years hence my philosophies today).

 

[disenchant]

Sorry, you are 9 years his senior, and have NO experience in the finer points of love making across at least a few partners to know what you do and don't like? Fine, thats your choice.

Down under here, that wouldn't last long. If it did then whoever is happy to live like that is not interested in experiencing life so much as towing the line during it, IMO.

huh?

what ARE you talking about?

 

[gkbass13]

<----is 22 and a bassplayer...
haha

congrats!! i hope date #3 goes well.

 

[soulgeezer]

huh?

what ARE you talking about?

dis, I think DC is taking you seriously. Now, what have I told you about putting smilies at the end of your posts?????

Hmmmmm?????

Use the damn smilies!!!!!

 

[disenchant]

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

dis, I think DC is taking you seriously. Now, what have I told you about putting smilies at the end of your posts?????

Hmmmmm?????

Use the damn smilies!!!!!

I thought the virgin huntress ritual was enough to let one know I wasn't serious...

I'm divorced...so I CLEARLY ain't no virgin. I don't know about him for sure, but right now all signs point to "negatory."

 

[Depth_Charge]

don't put out any earlier than 4 good long dates if you want him to respect you afterwards. well there are 2 kinda guys.
you give it up early and they don't respect ya, that's the category i fall under, but there are the guys that get it soon and are so happy they're not gonna leave you alone. either way the longer the way the better chance the relationship has.

but he is a lot younger than you so maybe your just looking for a fun fling. i dont' know

do what ya want

Sorry, just read this. You know girls like sex too right? They're just not "allowed to" be seen to like it. And each relationship is individual, so placing blanket rules over them all seems restrictive behaviour to me.

So I never judge a woman by how soon or how frequently she wants to have sex with me (alone!). And I don't expect a judgement to come back my way if I feel good enough about "us" to express a desire to consumate the feeling.

I've had relationships that held off for date after date that died a week after shagging. I've also had longer term relationships that practically started off in the sack too. I've had all kinds of encounters up to 34 and I bloody love the memories of my life. Hmmm, I think at this point I'm just bragging or being beligerent, so I'll take this opportunity to shut up and...oh look .... o_0 ...

A door.

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