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I had a date...YAY!

#45
Vandelay said:
Find out his TB account name, so we can pull up his old posts and mock them. :smug:
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#46
Depth_Charge said:
Sorry, just read this. You know girls like sex too right? They're just not "allowed to" be seen to like it. And each relationship is individual, so placing blanket rules over them all seems restrictive behaviour to me.

So I never judge a woman by how soon or how frequently she wants to have sex with me (alone!). And I don't expect a judgement to come back my way if I feel good enough about "us" to express a desire to consumate the feeling.

I've had relationships that held off for date after date that died a week after shagging. I've also had longer term relationships that practically started off in the sack too. I've had all kinds of encounters up to 34 and I bloody love the memories of my life. Hmmm, I think at this point I'm just bragging or being beligerent, so I'll take this opportunity to shut up and...oh look .... o_0 ...

A door.

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you're a kinder man than I.
but this isn't about whether girls like sex it's whether they like being used. i know at 23 that's how i rolled.
 
#53
Depth_Charge said:
Sorry, just read this. You know girls like sex too right? They're just not "allowed to" be seen to like it. And each relationship is individual, so placing blanket rules over them all seems restrictive behaviour to me.

So I never judge a woman by how soon or how frequently she wants to have sex with me (alone!). And I don't expect a judgement to come back my way if I feel good enough about "us" to express a desire to consumate the feeling.

I've had relationships that held off for date after date that died a week after shagging. I've also had longer term relationships that practically started off in the sack too. I've had all kinds of encounters up to 34 and I bloody love the memories of my life. Hmmm, I think at this point I'm just bragging or being beligerent, so I'll take this opportunity to shut up and...oh look .... o_0 ...

A door.

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I've done both...given it up early and had a long relationship and given it up late and had a long relationship. And vice-versa. I just go with whatever feels right, usually it's pretty easy to read when stuff in the bedroom is stalled and ready for the "next step." ;)

I remember being 23. I was 23 for a whole year! For me 23 was getting out of my parents' house and getting out on my own and figuring out what I want to do with my life. I guess you could say him and I are in the same place, I'm getting back on my own after being married and it's hard. And I'm trying to figure out again what I want to do with my life. And I can't say I know a heck of a lot more now at 32 except I know what NOT to do! And that would be date psychos. :D
 
#54
disenchant said:
I've done both...given it up early and had a long relationship and given it up late and had a long relationship. And vice-versa. I just go with whatever feels right, usually it's pretty easy to read when stuff in the bedroom is stalled and ready for the "next step." ;)

I remember being 23. I was 23 for a whole year! For me 23 was getting out of my parents' house and getting out on my own and figuring out what I want to do with my life. I guess you could say him and I are in the same place, I'm getting back on my own after being married and it's hard. And I'm trying to figure out again what I want to do with my life. And I can't say I know a heck of a lot more now at 32 except I know what NOT to do! And that would be date psychos. :D
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You know heaps! The more you learn, the less you know ;)
 
#55
disenchant said:
I've done both...given it up early and had a long relationship and given it up late and had a long relationship. And vice-versa. I just go with whatever feels right, usually it's pretty easy to read when stuff in the bedroom is stalled and ready for the "next step." ;)

I remember being 23. I was 23 for a whole year! For me 23 was getting out of my parents' house and getting out on my own and figuring out what I want to do with my life. I guess you could say him and I are in the same place, I'm getting back on my own after being married and it's hard. And I'm trying to figure out again what I want to do with my life. And I can't say I know a heck of a lot more now at 32 except I know what NOT to do! And that would be date psychos. :D
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FWIW - All my long term relationships have with girls that gave it up on the first date.

Although in hindsight that might be because I never stuck around with the other ones.

{Crap quoted the wrong post again.} Hope you guys can follow. I like 23 year olds. I liked them when I was 23 and I like them now. ;)
 
#56
MakiSupaStar said:
FWIW - All my long term relationships have with girls that gave it up on the first date.

Although in hindsight that might be because I never stuck around with the other ones.

{Crap quoted the wrong post again.} Hope you guys can follow. I like 23 year olds. I liked them when I was 23 and I like them now. ;)
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What's a long term relationship for you...one week or two?

(Just kidding!)
 

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