All of this is true, but I can tell you two stories that may help clarify things.
First story. I came here a little over a year ago with the goal of fixing a couple of wall hangers I had and building a couple of kits. I figured this would be a good way to educate myself to eventually do my dream scratch build. I started by fixing an old Beatle Bass copy that had been relegated to unplayable status for at least 30 years. At that point I really didn't know anything, but with a lot of tenacity and more than a little gentle guidance and generous sharing of knowledge from experienced luthiers like Bruce, Matt, Beej, Turnaround and many others I was able to get an old piece of crap playable again. I'm not exaggerating when I say any skilled craftsmen (and likely plenty of unskilled ones) would have gone into four figures to do what I did. As a first project I am VERY proud of what I was able to accomplish.
https://www.talkbass.com/threads/trying-to-fix-a-worthless-bass.1606233/
Then I did two kits. A Steinberger style bass that I bought before I knew anything. But even knowing nothing it was obvious to me that it was going to be a challenge, so I also bought a six string Tele kit to work on first. My next two planned projects are a scratch body with a purchased neck and a fretless conversion where I plan to remove the old fingerboard entirely and install a synthetic ebony fretboard. My hope is that by the time I've handled those two projects I will be ready to attempt a scratch neck.
https://www.talkbass.com/threads/should-i-document-my-kit-builds-here.1617525/
https://www.talkbass.com/threads/wbo-24-best-bass-to-root-root-root-for-the-home-team.1635391/
https://www.talkbass.com/threads/will-this-project-cut-it.1630213/
Second story (I understand if it's TLDR, but it should explain everything). I started playing bass at 12 and have always wanted to build one. I was quite busy in high school, playing in bands and doing musical theater, so I couldn't really pack anything else in. Then I went to Conservatory, studied opera (I'm a high lyric tenor, in those days I could pound out high Cs with exactly the same confidence as notes an octave lower.) Then I worked retail as I pursued gigs, etc.. I got married and after ten years we never had any kids in spite of never trying to prevent it, so we adopted two siblings, one of whom is very special needs. You can't keep sharp tools around when you live with a five foot four year old with impulse control issues. In 2019 my wife got a diagnosis of early onset Alzheimer's. My daughter was already living on her own, but we then set about finding an appropriate long term solution for my son's living needs. We had hoped to wait a few more years but she wanted to be part of the process while she still could and I knew that her needs were going to advance to the point where I couldn't possibly care for both of them at home. So we got him placed and not long after Covid hit. I'm an x-ray tech and was one of the people who never even missed a day of work during forced isolation because I was an essential worker (yay me.) Socialization is very important for Alzheimer's patients and she spending half of her life home alone. She quickly deteriorated as a result. Fifteen months ago I made the greuling decision that I could not keep her safe at home any longer and placed her in a locked memory care unit. For about two months after I went through extreme depression (first time in my life, survivor guilt is real.) Like the kind where my mind knew my body still functioned but yet I couldn't get out of bed. Then one day I woke up and said "Well God, I guess you've decided to keep me around for a reason, I had better figure out what it is". I went back to gigging, once again took over the position of music minister in my church and pursued my lifelong dream of building my own instruments. The last one was probably the most important because I am still young (-ish) and having something productive to do with my evening free time which had always been very much filled up with family concerns was incredibly important to my transitioning to living on my own (and I got a cat, I hated coming home to an empty house). I am probably not exaggerating to say that making sawdust has probably saved my life. My wife passed two weeks ago. Perhaps on some subconscious level that is part of why I picked up a new project when it presented itself.
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@iiipopes , I actually live for f***ups because they are learning experiences. That has always been my approach to life and is certainly my approach to lutherie.
@DanAdams , when I came here I didn't know anything, but I am learning. An old friend from high school came to see me earlier in the week and I said something about how self indulgent my hobbies feel. He answered that most people who had gone through what I did would probably spent their non-working hours on a barstool if they managed to even survive it at all. I suppose that is likely true. Plus making sawdust is much cheaper than therapy.
Sorry for the long post that actually doesn't have anything to do with building guitars. Or does it have everything to do with building guitars? Either way...