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Introvert? Extrovert? Which vert are you???

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Aw Winslow you always got something that gets me rollin’...:D
 
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Interesting. I always need a role to play, a job to justify my presence. Bass-playing gives me that. So, yeah: When I'm in front of a crowd, I'm on. When I'm not, I'm off. Although things have changed some: It took me a few years, but I can now schmooze with the best of them, even when what I really want to do is sit in a corner with my Kindle and read.
I’m 47 and still working on that dynamic... Kindle wins every time.
 
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I'm kind of in between. I can start a conversation with someone I don't know but don't like to speak in front of large groups of people. I usually don't enjoy being the center of attention. I'm usually not very animated on stage but do enjoy having fun with the audience. I was playing a festival several years ago and young girl was in front of the stage and was wearing bunny ears which were lighted and changed color. Between songs I commented on how much I liked her ears and she threw them over the barrier and onto the stage. I put them on my head and played several songs while wearing them.
 
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I've always thought of myself as introverted, and recently a coworker asked me the same question. We both thought of the other as fairly extroverted, but both described ourselves as introverts.

I've always been fairly shy in nature, but over the years have learned to communicate in a way where it apparently doesn't show.

They way you view yourself as a person has no effect on the way others see you, and I find that very interesting.
 
In the 'Motivation: Why do we do it?' thread, a few fellow bass players described themselves as introverts... and it got me thinking.

In my daily life, I am largely an extrovert. I consider myself social and gregarious. However, onstage, I MUCH prefer the bass space; hanging in the back, laying down the groove, and supporting the band. Occasionally, I am asked to play lead guitar or sing. I'm happy to do it because I love music & performing. But I find it adds a little anxiety, as it puts me more 'out front'.

So my question is, is there an overall tendency for bassists to be more introverted and guitarists/singers to be more extroverted? (Notice I said 'tendency' because there are always exceptions).

How would you describe YOUR personality? Do you think your personality-type played a role in choosing your instrument?
I swing both ways. I'm a multi-vert, onstage and off.
 
Took me years to figure it out, but always wondered why I was totally exhausted after being around large crowds like the mall for example. Same goes for interacting with people who constantly talk about random things having absolutely no relevance to them or me. If any of the above is prolonged, need time alone to recharge. Conversely, if it is music related, crowds or otherwise, it's energizing. Thank goodness!
 
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I took a test for it once. It said I was an ambivert with a strong leaning towards introversion. Which basically said I landed roughly in the middle but preferred introverted behaviors overall, and exhibited a tendency towards introvert type responses whenever pressured.
 
Extrovert. I'll take the needed space, and I'll take more if given more. I've always been an entertainer. It's all in the "dosage": it's annoying if it's too much/fake, but it's fun when done at the right pace, and also after a good "reading" of the crowd in front of you. It's a creative process for me I guess, and I'm good at it.
 
I took a test for it once. It said I was an ambivert with a strong leaning towards introversion. Which basically said I landed roughly in the middle but preferred introverted behaviors overall, and exhibited a tendency towards introvert type responses whenever pressured.
I took one of those Jungian personality profile tests back in about 1979 which said given my personality I should be a mystic prophet separate from society. I was rated extremely introverted which I would go along with.
 
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One thing I don't like about it is when I get overwhelmed. Often happens when someone is talking and I get this suffocating feeling like "will they EVER shut up?" and I have to do my best not to run away or TELL them to shut up lol.
oh yeah - i’m with you brother

and it seems like it’s ALWAYS when we’re tearing down and I’m worn out and just want to go home !
 
Based on these descriptions, I think I'm Bi!

If you're an introvert it's easy to be an extrovert in any endeavor when you believe in what you're doing and believe it has value for others when shared. You make it an internal goal. If not , it is a lot harder.
 
In the 'Motivation: Why do we do it?' thread, a few fellow bass players described themselves as introverts... and it got me thinking.

In my daily life, I am largely an extrovert. I consider myself social and gregarious. However, onstage, I MUCH prefer the bass space; hanging in the back, laying down the groove, and supporting the band. Occasionally, I am asked to play lead guitar or sing. I'm happy to do it because I love music & performing. But I find it adds a little anxiety, as it puts me more 'out front'.

So my question is, is there an overall tendency for bassists to be more introverted and guitarists/singers to be more extroverted? (Notice I said 'tendency' because there are always exceptions).

How would you describe YOUR personality? Do you think your personality-type played a role in choosing your instrument?
Definitely introvert, not looking for the spotlight. I leave that to the guitar player (extrovert). I played trumpet in school years ago and I've decided to join a community band. Another way to get out of the house and play music with people. And hide in a big group.:laugh:
 
I'm kind of in between. I can start a conversation with someone I don't know but don't like to speak in front of large groups of people. I usually don't enjoy being the center of attention. I'm usually not very animated on stage but do enjoy having fun with the audience. I was playing a festival several years ago and young girl was in front of the stage and was wearing bunny ears which were lighted and changed color. Between songs I commented on how much I liked her ears and she threw them over the barrier and onto the stage. I put them on my head and played several songs while wearing them.

I'm so much the opposite. I feel so awkward in one-to-one situations that I actually prefer to just have a stage and a microphone. Sometimes it's easier to do a toast at a wedding than to talk to the other guests. I feel less self-conscious. I can see it even more in my daughter, who is a singer. She can socialize, but unless it's a very small group of good friends, you can just see it exhausting her, and she gets more awkward. On stage, it's the opposite.

Brothers and sisters of TalkBass take this test and find out what your personality type is.
It's a REALLY accurate, bordering "spooky" kinda test..
The key is to BE BRUTALLY HONEST WITH YOURSELF WHEN ANSWERING THE QUESTIONS OK..:)
This test answered SO MANY QUESTIONS I had about myself and gave me insight I never had before!

Free personality test, type descriptions, relationship and career advice | 16Personalities

My personality type is an : INFJ-T
I = Introvert
N= Intuition
F = Feeling
J = Judging
T = Turbulent

Godspeed!

Peace! :)

Every time I take one of these tests I'm exactly between introvert and extrovert.
 
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