1) If money is really an issue right now, then take advantage of all the free internet resources already posted here.
2) Find people to play with. You'll be amazed at what you learn this way and especially how fast you learn it!
3) As soon as money permits, find yourself a good teacher who will a) has the experience, b) has both the ability and the desire to share that experience, c) listen to your goals, d) help shape his lesson plans around your goals, and e) use his experience to help you refine and adapt your goals as you progress.
If you end up with a teacher who can't/won't be/do all those things then find another teacher. Be picky. And when you find someone like that, pay them almost anything they want and soak up everything they can offer you. They'll be worth the price.