Reminds me of back in the day. A well known band had a bass player die in his 40s of a heart attack. Not a good thing. A keyboard player friend of mine that I hadn't seen in a couple of years showed up at my house. I hadn't been home only a few hours and I was beat.
He told me what happened and wondered if I'd be interested ln jamming with them. Why not, I just finished 3 years on the road! It would be fun, no pressure, low key! So, I jammed with them a couple of times. When I showed for a third fun evening everyone was just sitting around. Keyboard player said hey (my name) please set down, we have something to ask of you.
OK, what's up? Well, you've been jamming with us and we had something on the back burner. We never mentioned anything about it out of fear you'd walk out. We have a 5 hour corporate gig in 2.5 weeks. We really need you to step in? You can do it, you are a professional. Me - Thanks, so, I would need to learn your 5 song setlist in 2.5 weeks? Them - If you would, this is a big deal! I stood up and said, "I will see you guys later". Them - So, not a go right? Me - I can't learn 5 sets of music setting here with you wing nuts. I need your full list and to get home so I can get to it.
Them - So, you are in? Me - yes, see you next week, and I got the list. The place went nuts and I left. Out of 60 songs I knew 20. The other 40 I learned by making charts / little notes. Putting a bunch of time in so I wouldn't let them down. It takes work. An hour a day wasn't enough time for me to get 40 done. Be diligent and do the job. Notes, charts, whatever works for you and it will be fine.
He told me what happened and wondered if I'd be interested ln jamming with them. Why not, I just finished 3 years on the road! It would be fun, no pressure, low key! So, I jammed with them a couple of times. When I showed for a third fun evening everyone was just sitting around. Keyboard player said hey (my name) please set down, we have something to ask of you.
OK, what's up? Well, you've been jamming with us and we had something on the back burner. We never mentioned anything about it out of fear you'd walk out. We have a 5 hour corporate gig in 2.5 weeks. We really need you to step in? You can do it, you are a professional. Me - Thanks, so, I would need to learn your 5 song setlist in 2.5 weeks? Them - If you would, this is a big deal! I stood up and said, "I will see you guys later". Them - So, not a go right? Me - I can't learn 5 sets of music setting here with you wing nuts. I need your full list and to get home so I can get to it.
Them - So, you are in? Me - yes, see you next week, and I got the list. The place went nuts and I left. Out of 60 songs I knew 20. The other 40 I learned by making charts / little notes. Putting a bunch of time in so I wouldn't let them down. It takes work. An hour a day wasn't enough time for me to get 40 done. Be diligent and do the job. Notes, charts, whatever works for you and it will be fine.
don't stop what you're doing.