It really depends on what you're doing this for. I don't want other people to impose their values on me, and I try not to do it to others myself. What that means in practice is that, because I have fairly high standards, I have had to sift through a lot of bands that turned out to not be satisfying to my own standards. Ultimately I ended up in better bands because of that. What I didn't do was try to change people to mold them into what I wanted them to be. Well, maybe except for the one drummer who wanted me to help him grow.I think we should think beyond just what a bar crowd will accept from us. We should have higher standards, in my opinion. One of the more successful bands I was in was really not very good but they had a large following due to three brothers in the band who had a lot of friends who showed up.
But, here's the thing. People play music with others for a variety of reasons, and we all started somewhere. There has to be a place for all of it in the world, or nobody would ever have the opportunity to get good. That mediocre party band that's got a lot of friends will create a fun time for those people whose main goal is to drink a little beer and dance some. And there's nothing wrong with that. Just like there's nothing wrong with that group of teens who got together to play Black Sabbath covers in their garage back in 1975.
We change, and the things that make us happy change with us. It's all good.