There's this brand, "Luna", or "Luna guitars". They make guitars and basses that are geared towards women. I mostly think this kind of specialization is a pity, mostly. A lot of these designs normally have like flowers and rainbows and pink unicorns and ugh. Like women are all gay or something. Now, Luna does the purple-sparkly-thing here and there, but they have some badass stuff out there too. Check out their "Andromeda" line of basses specifically. Man, I want one of those in spite of my having-a-penis-ness and eating-beefjerky-ness and chesthairyness.
Anyhoo, they are supposed to be "featherweight". All Basswood 'n' such. Also, the andromeda basses have a J/MM configuration. And active at that. Might be interesting to hear how they sound. Besides, they cost like what, 350 to 400 dollars on musiciansfriend. I'm sure you can get an even sweeter deal on them somewhere.
Man. If I didn't have a responsibility towards my homies, my streetcred and my, uhm, Long John Silver, I'd have one of these basses so fast. Sigh. Such are the trials and challenges of manhood.