I don't get a band who plays so loud that it expects the audience to wear earplugs and is surprised when the audience doesn't. Wouldn't it be better for everyone if you found the same musical balance at a lower volume, like say, the effective volume level through earplugs? Just wondrin'.
I remember attending a local show a couple of years ago at which the band was so freaking loud that my hearing was a little cottony for months afterwards. I'll be wary of that band forever now. Doesn't seem like a great long-term strategy for building a fan base when you look at it that way.
i don't expect them to, i am just surprised they don't. they keep coming back so I guess that's all that matters. turning down the volume is not the same as wearing earplugs...there is a physical element to loud volumes that people love. I get the comment "i feel like i've had the s**t kicked out of me, thanks!" all the time.
I'm more careful nowadays and try to stay away from the stage mains. Thankfully I haven't felt the need for ear plugs.