Well, all I am reading is a lot of speculation. In many ways being a WL is a thankless job. All too often they are in a position of using musicians who without a doubt have their heart in the right place, but don't have the talent that is really needed. If you are a bass player and the WL plays guitar, there is not too much of a problem since he can't really step on you. But, as a keyboard player, as someone else has already said, he may be in a mode of, "I need to fill as many holes in the sound as possible to cover up for others." My dad, who is 85, plays the organ and has his whole life. I have seen him in situations playing with a band at his church and he struggles to play less than what is written in front of him, which is a 3 part organ chart, it is just an innate part of him to play what is there. Put him up there by himself and he is fantastic though. In my case, I don't have issues with the keyboards, I have issues with the fact that the bass parts are written for everyone who plays bass at the church to be able to play. This means that they are exceedingly simple. Yes, I could up the ante when I am playing, but this causes issues with other people who don't necessarily adapt well to things they are not used to hearing. The WL and MD and I have discussed this a few times and we have agreed that I should just play the regular parts, after all it is not about me! You need to discuss with the powers that be and come to a workable agreement, which may mean that you should sit it out if the WL/MD is unwilling to change. A church is certainly no place for egos, but everyone there is still a human being and as such is susceptible to the ways of the world. Be the bigger person and do the right thing, but that does not mean that you should not make everyone aware of why you are doing what you are doing.
Much of your post sounds like my personal experience and observations. We mostly play off sheet music where the piano can cover the entire accompaniment, and the pianists just play the music as written. While I would prefer to hear arrangements where the piano/keyboard has a specific part to play, that is just not my WL's style. We actually have both a keyboard and piano being played at the same time, and they take turns playing the full accompaniment or just chording. When I feel I can't be heard, it is less because the keys are doubling my part, but more that we don't have an experienced soundman. The mix that gets pumped through our house is primarily keyboard, piano, and vocals.
Fortunately, I do occasionally get invited to fill in at other churches and experience different worship environments, but as much as I enjoy those experiences, it would take a lot more than personal music taste to get me to leave my home church permanently.