I went through a 6 year metal binge. Cut my teeth on old Megadeth, Iron Maiden, Macabre (Death Metal with a hilarious sense of humor), Iced Earth, Exodus, Blind Guardian etc. Got more into it, looking into all the subgenre's and finding really awesome bands. Later on I was mostly a Death and Thrash kind of person, sticking to bands like Cranium, Death, Bolt Thrower, Crucified Mortals, Necrophagist, Dark Angel, Cannibal Corpse, Crystal Age and so on. There's some great bands in metal and some amazing musicians, but there's A LOT of crap, a lot of copycat bands and tons of horribly over-rated bands. Examples would be Slayer, Hypocrisy, Nevermore, Meshuggah, King Diamond, Savatage, Dimmu Borgir and pretty much any metal band you see featured somewhere mainstream, like
www.ultimate-guitar.com an certain magazines. Nowadays I rarely listen to metal except for a couple of bands I still put on every so often, like Death or Opeth. I stick mostly to what people label "post rock" and "math rock," stuff like Don Caballero, Isis, Pelican, Godspeed You Black Emperor etc.
What I never got about metal was the whole "scene." There's so many people that see metal as a brotherhood. Never understood it. Or people that take metal as a way of life. To me it's just another genre of music to enjoy and for the most part metal shows are more fun than most other shows you can see. But to make your whole lifestyle, dress, attitude and musical selection revolve around it just always seemed silly to me. I was always the guy hanging out with the metal crowd, a bunch of dudes with leather and spikes, long hair and death metal shirts, me just dressing in whatever and acting however.
Oh well, it's their choice, I don't have any say in it and no reason to let it bother me, I just never really understood why people did it. Oh well.