In this specific situation, I think your pedal settings are set up to make your AMP sound good, but causing issues with your FOH. Try setting up your signal to FOH first, then tweak the amp EQ to get the sound you want on stage.
Also, what bass are you using? If you are going DI to FOH, the native tone of your bass becomes the #1 determinant of your overall sound, IMO.
Also, what bass are you using? If you are going DI to FOH, the native tone of your bass becomes the #1 determinant of your overall sound, IMO.