OK, so let me start this off by saying, first and foremost... I know. It's a long-shot. And, yes, my wife is awesome (you'll see why in a second.)
I'm a relative newcomer to TB, but have been a lifelong musician and bass player with 20+ years experience. Music degree, several years of full time touring, 1000+ live performances, plenty of studio time, etc.
That said, I've taken the past few years "off" from music. I've kept up with my playing (home studio, casual local groups) but down-scaled the rig, got married, got a real job, mortgage, life, etc., etc.
So, the wife and I are talking about a month ago, about our current life situation and potential future endeavors when, all out of the blue, she says, "You know, I will totally support you if you want to go back to playing music full time. In fact, I'd be interested in moving to Nashville if you find the right gig."



Trust me, this is WAY out of my wife's comfort zone. We both have full time professional jobs, and she is definitely not a risk taker. We have been casually talking about moving away from Buffalo NY for some time, but I'm usually the one to initiate the idea.
Now, I know that the music biz is constantly and rapidly changing. I have the chops, I have the experience, I have the gear, I just need the gig. My question is, however, do I NEED the location? How necessary is it to be in Nashville/LA/NYC/insert-current-hot-music-town-here in order to get the gigs? With the amount of technology at our fingertips, is it possible/advisable to start the search, and realistically find something from home base (Buffalo, NY)? Or, are word of mouth and networking still king?
As you might imagine, the idea of quitting two good, full time, stable jobs (especially in this economy) to move out of town without something in place is not high on either of our lists. A split/PT living situation is not out of the question (wife in Buffalo, me in Nashville) for a short term.
Just wondering what input the TB pro community can offer.
Thanks in advance
I'm a relative newcomer to TB, but have been a lifelong musician and bass player with 20+ years experience. Music degree, several years of full time touring, 1000+ live performances, plenty of studio time, etc.
That said, I've taken the past few years "off" from music. I've kept up with my playing (home studio, casual local groups) but down-scaled the rig, got married, got a real job, mortgage, life, etc., etc.
So, the wife and I are talking about a month ago, about our current life situation and potential future endeavors when, all out of the blue, she says, "You know, I will totally support you if you want to go back to playing music full time. In fact, I'd be interested in moving to Nashville if you find the right gig."
Trust me, this is WAY out of my wife's comfort zone. We both have full time professional jobs, and she is definitely not a risk taker. We have been casually talking about moving away from Buffalo NY for some time, but I'm usually the one to initiate the idea.
Now, I know that the music biz is constantly and rapidly changing. I have the chops, I have the experience, I have the gear, I just need the gig. My question is, however, do I NEED the location? How necessary is it to be in Nashville/LA/NYC/insert-current-hot-music-town-here in order to get the gigs? With the amount of technology at our fingertips, is it possible/advisable to start the search, and realistically find something from home base (Buffalo, NY)? Or, are word of mouth and networking still king?
As you might imagine, the idea of quitting two good, full time, stable jobs (especially in this economy) to move out of town without something in place is not high on either of our lists. A split/PT living situation is not out of the question (wife in Buffalo, me in Nashville) for a short term.
Just wondering what input the TB pro community can offer.
Thanks in advance