OK, maybe I should have qualified my statement by putting it in the context of MY live experience, which is, admittedly, limited to live rock, funk, dance, and country music shows where the audience is loud, dancing and partying. The audiences I play for respond in a big way to the band behaving like the crowd. In retrospect, I should have stated that MY area of live performance is only ONE area, and for many, many others, the musicians onstage aren't expected to/rewarded for looking and acting like the bands these crowds are watching on MTV and CMT all week. Our set lists are worked out several days in advance of a show, giving everyone lots of time to prep. And those gigs are two-thirds showmanship and one-third musicianship.
Nobody in my Sunday church band would even try to play without a stand, including me. But if I propped one up in front of me Friday night, I'd get the big ***? from our crowds.