I'm one of those mutants who can remember and play thousands of songs, remember tons of often useless trivia...
and forget your name moments after I'm introduced. It would be fun to know why my musical memory is as sharp as it is. It only takes the mention of a song or maybe a couple of notes and the full arrangement starts playing back in my head. And I do mean "full". And not just songs... TV soundtracks, commercials, doesn't matter, it's all burned in.
Maybe I don't remember names because I don't consider them important. Then again I doubt I really considered segues on Gilligan's Island important either and I'm stuck with them.
If I repeat a name a couple of times it does seem to stick a bit better.
i'm a mutant too.
the name thing is tough, but I can recall the actor's name in an obscure movie from decades ago, and can remember the name of character(s) that they played in other movies.
I can repeat dialog back after I walk out of the theatre.
I can recall the color of the Jacket/dress/car/room.
I can give you directions to a place that i have only been to once, NOT by street names, but visual landmarks.
I can recall names of band members, obscure band names, club names, what instruments were played....
IP addresses, Phone #s, Software developer of a particular application, the software requirements for imaging 30-40 different client configurations......
the decor and color of the furniture in my grandmothers house that i visited only a couple times before they moved (i was 3 and no there aren't any pictures)
I remember and can describe the time i crawled out of my crib when i was 2 (i fell out when i unlatched the side and cut my eye lid on the edge of the railing, bled all over the place, freaked my mom out, the neighbor, his name was Jim, was a nurse at the local hospital, i told my Mom to get him, with the few words i knew at the time)
Names: of casual introductions, gone before the next sip... WEIRD!!!
I'll remember your face, the place we met, perhaps even the clothing you were wearing and the people you were with (at least how they look)
I have decided it is because i know 1000's of Johns 10's of thousands of Mikes.
Several 1000 Betty,jane,sandy,julie,shannon,meghan,tina,amy... on and on
it's a matter of the face with the name, i know and remember the face but the name? that takes effort or something else to correlate it.