Looks like the OP jumped ship once the thread took a turn, that I'm guessing, he didn't anticipate.
Can't really blame him. This thread has been pretty worthless (to me) for a few pages now.
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Looks like the OP jumped ship once the thread took a turn, that I'm guessing, he didn't anticipate.
I would have said, "And you're a rude little snot nose with delusions of mediocracy."
You suck! Your attitude is CRAP! It shows your limitations!So you never rehearse, and all tried to be professional musicians early in life and failed? Is that right?
How much "live show" experience can a 19 yo have?
Depends on your background. I played in front of people fairly regularly from age 8 onwards, and by 19 had done well over 60 marching band competitions, a musical, originals gigs, four years of halftime shows, and played at Disneyland and Dodger Stadium. I had more live show experience by 19 than most of the people who post here have had in their entire lives.
Wonderful. So many were quick to pile on the OP singer's age and generation
Do you think his level of experience at that age is the rule and not the exception? Sheesh.Wonderful. So many were quick to pile on the OP singer's age and generation..
Do you think his level of experience at that age is the rule and not the exception? Sheesh.
It's no more bogus than assuming she should have a wealth of experience and maturity at that age.No. But for a bunch of 50-70 year olds to assume someone can't do something just because of their age, is bogus. It's even worse when a whole forum full of them dig in their heels over it.![]()
By the way, I'm not in the camp here that thinks she wasn't capable of doing what she wanted to do, vocally. I've been suggesting that *if* she needed help, this was not the way to go about it. I've also been the one suggesting that the people who thought she needed help might not have understood her delivery style because it's somewhat modern. So I'm not disagreeing with you, but I don't want to hear how she should have been seasoned enough to handle this disagreement in a different way. We don't know that. That's also what managers are for.It's no more bogus than assuming she should have a wealth of experience and maturity at that age.
In our defense, it is also not getting worseThread is not getting better, guys!![]()

To be fair, this is TB, and everybody thinks threads peaked 40-50 years ago and haven't gotten any better since.
It's only true because Boomers cut funding for music education in schools.
So don't make it sound like it's the kid's fault... ;-)
I started playing gigs at 13. We didn't play every week, but we rehearsed every week and probably played once a month. I joined an agency band at 17 playing 2-4 times a week and I was playing full time by the time I was 19.Well,
How much "live show" experience can a 19 yo have?
Before the pandemic she would be 16yo.
How would she have "live show" experience?
How long ago was this? People seem to think these opportunities for highschool bands to play dances and whatnot still exist? They don't.I started playing gigs at 13. We didn't play every week, but we rehearsed every week and probably played once a month. I joined an agency band at 17 playing 2-4 times a week and I was playing full time by the time I was 19.