My two cents: I've used great headphones for eking out recorded bass parts, and of course they're as good as what's feeding them. However, there's a certain finality I sense using closed headphones, almost what feels like audio claustrophobia. So I prefer speakers. I want to sense those big wavelengths in the air, bouncing of the walls, etc. It seems more natural to me.
And of course they run the gamut and you can pay as much as you can afford without trying hard at all. But for me, to hear the bass parts, I WANT it exaggerated, I don't care if it's lopsided in the deep end, because that's what I'm listening for; so for this sort of thing I really prefer some sort of 2.1 stereo setup (that is, L and R speakers + subwoofer). You can buy this sort of setup in many different flavors and price ranges, but for that sort of thing, that's what works best for me. In the process, generally the kick drum is RIGHT THERE, too.
And as you can see, you can take Wasnex's advice to the bank. I do.
Best of luck, m'am.