Since no one has answered his questions about how to set his amp eq's...here goes
Start flat.
Listen.
Listen, with the band playing, usually a tone that cuts thru a band and sounds great in the mix doesn't sound so great by itself, so listen with everyone playing and adjust. . If it's too boomy out front cut the lows. Lost in the mix, add mids. Need more definition, add higher mids/highs. The key is to listen. Be careful adjusting the eq for on stage. It sounds way different out front than where you are standing. If your soundman is good ask him to listen and direct you on what to add or subtract. He is out front, you are not.
Listen...adjust...like..stop messing with the knobs and play
ymmv
thanks - and that's pretty much what I did. I ended up having to cut a little of the low end (lowest two sliders on the graphic) because there was a boom, and after that all was well. I played a couple of songs without the IEMs, and my amp sounded extremely loud, but the sound guy says it was fine at the back of the room. I guess it's hard to tell when you're standing right next to it ?
The audience tells me that the balance was good, and we absolutely had a great gig. They wouldn't let us leave at the end, which I guess must be a good sign
Loads of people I didn't know complimented me on the sound and my playing - nice when it happens.