I've thought about growing dreads. I have curly hair and I desperately want to be able to get some sick metal hair windmilling action going on but can not with a white boy fro. unfortunately I get to about 2 months of my hair growing out, start looking like a slob and cut it.
If you want long hair, you've got to suffer through the "explosion in a mattress factory" look. I look back at pictures of when my hair was growing out and think "what a mess!". I only saw the progress, not the appearance.
once it gets long enough to ponytail, you're golden. Guys like the op can rock short hair. Me? I look awful with short hair. I'd say you've got to give it 6mos - 1yr to grow.
