My father was stationed at Minot AFB, N.Dakota in 1963 (B-52 bomber/ Minuteman missile base); I was 12, in the 7th grade, and going to school in town. I remember a lot of crying (lots of crying- kids and adults),shock and disbelief, when the shooting was announced. I also remember standing in the middle of all of that, feeling... numb, I guess... and thinking, "I'm really, actually, not surprised". And, in a distant sort of way, being kind of surprised that I wasn't. Hard to describe, really,
Why? As a kid, I always liked to hang out with adults; plus I had a paper route on base that included most of the barracks'. Those guys were adults, but not too much older than I was. We had a lot of stuff in common (hell, I was born on an Air Base), and we talked about a lot of stuff, including politics. It's easy to forget, after 50 years, and the erasing of "Bad Stuff" about a slain President from our collective memory (we prefer to forget, for example, that Abraham Lincoln suspended people's civil rights; threw war dissenters into prison without trial; and was a virtual dictator for most of the Civil War), that there were a lot of Americans who were extremely unhappy with Kennedy' policies in general, and hated him personally. They weren't shy about expressing it, either; in ways that would get them jailed if they did it today. I know; I heard it. A lot of people thought it would be great if he was 'got rid of', and said so-loudly. So, it was a shock when it actually happened; but, sad to say, not a surprise.
I also remember the school bus having a very hard time getting past the swarm of Security Police at the base front gate that day. The bus was boarded and searched; everybody's ID card was checked-very carefully- and the driver was dragged out, thrown on the ground, and searched. I think we left a couple of kids at the gate, too, 'cause they had forgotten their ID; their fathers were probably not real happy about it, either. Minot AFB was a very paranoid place for the next week or so. They finally calmed down after it was decided that the assassination wasn't part of a Commie plot to start WWIII. Not a happy time, for sure. For me, America died that day, too: and the Amerika that replaced it has not been a suitable substitute.