I figured that out when I was in my 20s. I didn't have the math for it or anything, but my study of Buddhism lead me to understand that everything we experience in reality is relative. We experience reality through our senses, which differ slightly from person to person, and that is then filtered through our consciousness, which is an amalgam of memories and experiences, which is also singular. None of us experience reality the same, therefore you can't prove conclusively anything about an objective, singular reality.
On a scientific level, we can only describe or analyze reality through the lens of what we know, which will always be imperfect, so we can never truly nail down what is objective reality as we can only study it from our subjective point of view.
In the process of thinking about writing a hard Sci Fi novel, the idea of something so simple as time gets thrown out the window. We count time based on Earth's position relative to our sun. Which is far from a universal measurement. The idea of a light year then loses all meaning.