... now the guitarist claims he "cant find" my guitar.
All of that band are into pretty heavy drug use...
Our friend's bass that was there also went 'missing,'...
He called me an a**hole
What do you guys think?

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... now the guitarist claims he "cant find" my guitar.
All of that band are into pretty heavy drug use...
Our friend's bass that was there also went 'missing,'...
He called me an a**hole
What do you guys think?

invader3k said:Seems like I've read many threads like this on Talkbass over the years. The common themes are: lending or giving control of something (ie. possession at a practice space) to someone who was untrustworthy to begin with, being very passive about the situation and hoping for the best, taking forever to actually do something about the situation, and finally, never getting the gear back unless authorities finally get involved.
I would call the police. Its technically a theft issue
Ha ha. You say that as if that advice hasn't been offered and rejected, over... and over... and over.
OP obviously has issues with the police himself......
Thank you for assuming that about me. I have none, I'm simply two hours away and in the middle of finals week. Next week, as soon as the guy who's bass got "lost" gets back in town from Lubbock, me him and the other are filing a police report, and filing a claim in small claims court. We all feel like we'll have better chances if we do it as a group
You must be a very dedicated student. Hell, highwater or exams wouldn't stop me from proceeding immediately to confront the thief had he stole my ax. I would use all channels available, legal and otherwise to make him feel my pain. There are few worse types of thieves than a fellow musician that steals gear.
I'm a bassist. I never played the guitar that got stolen, which was why I was cool with him having it so long. I've since replaced the guitar, and am doing this now based on the fact that the guy with the bass's father and uncle are attorneys, and there's a third guy who's gear got stolen
Thank you for assuming that about me. I have none
In my experience, every time I've filed a police report the cops from the district did come out and talk to me.
And yes, that was one of the bigger mistakes of my life thus far
Your posts throughout this thread demonstrated an unreasonable reluctance to involve the police, and then you clearly stated this has been a problem with you in the past. Not sure how my comment that you have issues with the police was an assumption...
JamesGoodall said:Please, show me where I said I had any reluctance towards getting the police involved?
Please, show me where I said I had any reluctance towards getting the police involved?
It will be considered a civil matter and the police won't even touch it.