Everyone plays for their own reasons. You definitely didn't ruffle any feathers here. In twenty five years on this forum I for one have seen it all. In fact, when it started it was mostly professionals who constantly ribbed each other and fierce debates broke out that occasionally came to blows.I didn't mean to ruffle anybody feathers ( I am new here and u all have a lot thinner skin than some other internet forum folks! I'm not usually a stir-the-pot guy on other forums, either). I can see JS gets alot of respect here - and it is well-deserved as his posts are very enlightening and his experience shows.
I have been a proponent of listening to the "old stuff" to learn the REAL WAY in bluegrass for the 25 years I have been playing bgrass and d.b. I listen to lots of sonically sub-par recordings ("there is a bass on it?!") and appreciate the value in learning from the old masters of every musical form/genre. I have shown my Bluegrass Police badge many times in the past... but I don't really bother anymore as my idea of what is real or not doesn't matter much. I have lots of friends that want to hear the same style of bluegrass as me and I play with them as much as I can and still can have fun with others.
Go out and get into some jams and go to festivals and camps/workshops to learn this great FUN music and grab onto those folks who can help you learn on your journey! Thanks all for sharing their experiences.
Whatever we may say or do or think it all comes out in the wash. When we pick up a bass to play it will all be there on full display: what we listened to, how much we have practiced, who we admired, how we studied, our limitations, and hopefully, who we are.
I'd rather meet someone with an instrument first than any other form introduction. You can tell more about a person by how they play than a thousand internet posts. Words fail all of us at some time or another.
As far as being thin-skinned, I know that is considered a negative trait, someone who is over-sensitive and takes offense at the slightest provocation. But I for one have been trying to cultivate and maintain a thin-skin when it comes to music as long as I can remember. When I pick up the bass I want all my senses to be heightened. I want to hear, feel and process what is going on around me as best as I humanly can. When I'm trying to get a sound out of the instrument or find a new sound it is as if all my nerves are hanging out exposed. I want to be able to get into the sound as much as possible, to understand it, to master it, to control it and then, use it for my own means. So dramatic right? Hahahaha. To me that is the goal. It doesn't mean I walk around crying all the time unable to live in a troubled insensitive world. Hahaha! To me it is what it means to be an artist. There is no shame in being thin-skinned. I contest that the most famously gruff musicians, say Charles Mingus, or Bill Monroe are incredibly thin-skinned at their core. They just found a way to use it in their favor.
So zero harm done. Welcome to the forum. There are a lot of different ideas floating around here. Take what you will. We are all bass players, that's enough for me to call these people, my people.