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How can anybody have the nerve to pester their friends and family to buy "tickets" for these scam shows? Especially more than once.
Ah, so you disappoint your friends and family consistently.![]()
What makes me sad is that even if they were successful at pulling these shows off, I feel that it wont change anything.
Pay-to-play will still exist because of new blood coming into the mix. I already fell into that trap once. Not fun.
How can anybody have the nerve to pester their friends and family to buy "tickets" for these scam shows? Especially more than once.
Your logic, or lack of it thereof, apparently escapes me.![]()
Ok, I pestered my friends and family to come to the show once. I paid for most of their tickets. They brought some additional people who bought their own tickets. We packed the place and broke even after promotional costs.
At the show, we delivered to excess.
Now the friends, family, and friends of friends, contact me and ask me when they can buy tickets to the next show.
But I imagine that if we disappointed the friends and family, I would have to pester them again. And since you mentioned pestering your friends and family more than once, it appears to me that you've disappointed them. I have no experience with pestering friends and family more than once.
Anyway, rant over but I did have a question. Does anybody have an experience where a pay-to-play show was worth it? And what's the best way to convince venues you are worth getting paid?
So you pack the place and only break even. Sounds like your band is clueless business wise.Ok, I pestered my friends and family to come to the show once. I paid for most of their tickets. They brought some additional people who bought their own tickets. We packed the place and broke even after promotional costs.
At the show, we delivered to excess.
Now the friends, family, and friends of friends, contact me and ask me when they can buy tickets to the next show.
But I imagine that if we disappointed the friends and family, I would have to pester them again. And since you mentioned pestering your friends and family more than once, it appears to me that you've disappointed them. I have no experience with pestering friends and family more than once.
So you pack the place and only break even. Sounds like your band is clueless business wise.![]()
(Also, if we spend $450 on promotions, we try to do that as a long-term investment in the band, paid for by the show. We don't print fliers that say "See us at THIS BAR," we print posters that say "See US" and write in the bar's name with a marker. So we end up spending every dime we earn, but we have boxes full of marketing and promotional materials that were paid for by these gigs.)
No; I haven't disappointed my friends and family as you have illogically suggested. I only play gigs where the club pays me and there is never a cover. Not to digress, but I don't play in an all originals band where this sort of exploitation is rampant. So that, obviously, may have affected my bias.
I have, however, been annoyed by people who have implored me to go to their pay to play shows and sometimes it gets tiresome. Capiche?
You're right! Dangit! I never thought of that! I wish I took some advice from this guy: