I'm talking cover bands and bar gigs here... It is definitely better to not use a stand. But better to use a stand then screw up the lyrics. Just keep it as minimal as possible. I sing lead a good bit while playing so I throw a few notes on a note card and clip it to my mike stand. Hardly noticeable and helps ween me off the crutch. Oh and using a stand for anything except lyrics IMO is an embarrassment. I can remember the music to 1000s of songs but lyrics are much harder. As an instrumentalist for a gig you should be listening and watching each other for cues. Not playing to a tab or chord sheet. If the singer or drummer or guitar player takes the song another direction (improvisation) you are screwed.
And to all of you whiners about your singer using a crutch I have a suggestion. Buck up and sing lead some yourself and help with the workload.
And to all of you whiners about your singer using a crutch I have a suggestion. Buck up and sing lead some yourself and help with the workload.